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Inconsistency and Perfectionism

My struggle with inconsistency for so many years stemmed back to my thought that I was expected to be perfect and do everything perfectly. I thought there was a level of perfection I could attain, and I thought that others expected me to attain it. I felt judged for not living up to an arbitrary standard (perhaps made up in my head) and I kept spinning my wheels trying to do all the things, please everyone, and live up to what I thought others' expectations ...